B Matthews Funeral Directors
7 Middle Rd, Park Gate, Southampton SO31 7GH, United Kingdom
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Lisa was keen to find out who Brian was to ensure his funeral was as personalised and special as possible. She was very warm, trustworthy, honest, and not least of all, funny - he would have liked her! Her ability to easily get a feel for Brian’s personality enabled her to match us with the perfect celebrant, Gareth, whose eulogy was excellent – hilarious and witty, with just enough “fluffiness” to ensure it was funeral appropriate. She was also more than happy to sit with us while we went back and forth about the Order of Service. None of the examples seemed to "fit" Brian's personality but when my youngest daughter suggested "Why don't we do sweets?!", it just made sense and Lisa assured us this could be done. Lisa made sure the Order of Service was absolutely perfect before it went to print. Each suggestion she made regarding arrangements when we were stuck for ideas was on point, and showed she had really listened to us and grasped who Brian was.
From the beginning Lisa was attentive, respectful, and warm, which was also matched by the wider team. She was thoughtful and very attentive, taking note of even the smallest details. Lisa really looked after Brian while he rested with them in Park Gate - talking to him daily, playing him 80's music and Christmas songs and spraying his favourite deodorant each morning. Brian was truly in safe hands.
We felt able to communicate our needs easily; nothing was too much trouble. Lisa was happy to accommodate visits and remembered all the little things that made Brian who he was. She lightened the load considerably during a time of much anguish.
Speaking of visiting, Lisa was also brilliant with my two granddaughters, both 14 years old. She spoke to them with ease and a sense of respect that helped them feel included, while still protecting their fragility at such an age. Lisa even managed two younger relatives (7 and 5), providing answers to their questions but not going into detail, all without missing a beat.
The wider team were second to none. We met Neil, Tim, and Wayne all of whom were kind and respectful. They were also hilarious, personable and thought outside the box. So much so, that they added a little flourish to the coffin involving my husband’s wooden parrot, which just fitted his personality to a “T”! They kept us smiling through the tears and the day went off without a hitch due to their efforts. My younger brother used to work for a separate funeral directors and Neil was more than happy to allow him to be pall bearer at the last minute. We really appreciated this as it allowed my brother to do “one last thing” for his brother-in-law.
Lisa has continued to support us through our grief and we are eternally grateful.
We highly recommend B Matthews in your time of need. They are truly fantastic.
(p.s. Lisa loves trifle if you ever want to gift her something afterwards)!